Reviving Romance: How to Keep the Spark Alive When You're Expecting

Reviving Romance: How to Keep the Spark Alive When You're Expecting

Reviving Romance: How to Keep the Spark Alive When You're Expecting

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Oh, the third trimester! That magical time when your ankles have mysteriously decided to emulate water balloons, and your once svelte figure has miraculously transformed into something resembling an avant-garde art piece. Amidst the miracle of growing a tiny human comes the challenge of keeping the romance alive. Though your nights may now be filled with more bathroom trips than passion, fear not! We're here to help you cradle not just your baby bump but also your love life.

Belly Laugh: Ain't no glow like the glow from a takeout menu glistening on your face!

Let's be real: pregnancy does something funny to the frequency of romantic candle-lit dinners. Not to worry, for there's magic in the mundane. Swap intricate restaurant meals for a takeaway on your best plates and make eye contact over the chicken tikka in your world's best pajamas. This isn't just comfort; it's a gourmet experience tailored for you!

Forget expressing love in grand gestures. Think tiny. A sticky note love letter on the fridge, a quick foot rub that doesn’t end in sleep (yours or theirs), or a surprise donut on a mundane Tuesday can sometimes be the real game-changers!

Pro Tip: He's not looking at your ankles—he's looking at your heart. Probably. If not, remind him!

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Take a step into that dusty drawer of untested board games or crack open a jigsaw puzzle. There's nothing like a good competition to reignite the flame. Just try not to banish your partner to the couch if they beat you. Remember, second trimester, first place in your heart!

For those of you who still look mystified by our mention of things like ‘fun’ and ‘romance’ (doesn't everything sound made-up after eight consecutive hours of binge-watching series?), here are some practical, less-traditional but effective romance moves!

Bold Move: Turn stretching exercises into a floor-based dance party; remember, it's all about the rhythm!

Your bumpy, changing silhouette is not just for cozying up alone. It's a reason to go shopping—cue the maternity leggings! Shop maternity leggings and strike a pose to remind yourselves that even when horizontal while trying not to pee yourself, you’re one hot couple!

The bedroom doesn’t have to be a no-go zone. Nope, it can be a cozy haven. Arrange your pillows fortress-style to accommodate that lovely baby load and hop back onto the intimacy train! Spooning is delightful any time of the day. It’s like the cuddle warmer for two before the third party arrives.

Saucy Saying: Kitchen counters may deny you access now, but have you tried the sofa?

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luxurious oils and warm towels (all skill levels welcome!). Listen, if your idea of a ‘spa’ sounds like a playback of hypnobirthing tracks and the occasional smell of lavender, run with it! After all, self-care is sexy, and arguably, even better when shared!

Planning before the baby arrives? Consider writing a ‘post-baby-night’ agreement where each can earn points for non-verbal nudges (trust us, these are invaluable). Keep the humor alive—maybe the one with the most diaper changes gets to choose the night out movie, that is, in approximately 8-12 months!

Hot Tip: Date night goal—talk about the baby for less than 50% of the conversation. It’s harder than it sounds, but hey, it's a goal!

Factually speaking, some gestures fade, some get bolder—what matters is effort. Wearing post-pregnancy Mum Tum leggings is a vote for comfort in confidence designed for the superwoman metamorphosis you’re fast-tracked into. Explore Mum Tum leggings to unleash your true, fabulous self!

In a sea of birth plans and baby registry gifts, know this: romance postpartum lives in the glances that speak a thousand connections, the shared smiles over sleepy infant snuggles, and yes, even those toe-curling diaper duties.

Romantic Whisper: If you can survive labor, you'll conquer anything—ask your love life!

Remember, lovebirds, while a baby might add a third member to your team, the initial starting line was ‘you and your partner’. So, keep the giggles going, sneak in those cheeky moments, skip the serious. Brownie points for style can't be measured, but buying your maternity or mum tum leggings is a reliable start to a romantic leg-up!

Cheeky Sign-Off: Love in the third trimester—because one bun in the oven shouldn't mean your love life's cooked! May your journey through maternity be as memorable as your maternity wear!

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