Rekindling Connections: Celebrating Friendship in the Midst of New Beginnings
Hey there, mama! So, you’re about 12 to 24 months into this wild ride called motherhood. Congrats! You’ve officially survived the delectable combo of sleep deprivation, diaper explosions, and unsolicited advice from every corner of the globe. But let's talk about something that might not get as much attention – your friendships. Specifically, the one that’s gone awol ever since your bestie moved to that new, far-off land. (Okay, it’s still in the same country, but who’s keeping track?)
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. But are you just fond of ghost chatting on WhatsApp?Remember when your lunch dates were all about gourmet salads and not pureed peas? Or when your phone wasn’t permanently set to vibrate in case of a toddler meltdown? Connecting with your friend post-baby can feel like navigating a minefield of yesteryear grievances and current chaos. But don't worry, because we're here to serve some tongue-in-cheek advice on rekindling that friendship in the most playful manner possible.
Plan a Virtual Date – Pajamas Optional!
Let's face it, finding time to meet in person may be as rare as finding a unicorn that does your laundry. So why not take it digital? Schedule a virtual date that doesn't require you to get out of your pajamas or brush your hair. Trust us; they’ve seen you at worse.
Your Wi-Fi and willingness might be spotty, but friendships shouldn’t be!Turn off Pe
ppa Pig in the background, pour a drink, and dive into the latest gossip, scandals, or just endless giggles about who was more sleep-deprived this week. Bonus points if you manage to keep the video call from disconnecting every five minutes.Revisit the Inside Jokes That Never Die
Got that joke that always made you two laugh until you snorted? Time to resurrect it! Create a meme about something only you and your BFF would understand. Send it along with a cheeky message like, “Remember when we thought this was peak adulting?” Watch as it unfolds a thread of memories and giggles that time hasn’t faded.
Your friendship isn't like a fine wine, but it has aged well enough!Cue eye roles from any new friends who just don’t get the reference. But that’s okay. Keep those iconic, ridiculous moments alive with your bestie because sometimes you need a little nostalgia with a side of ridiculousness to keep the fun alive.
Plan a Surprise Visit... Or Surprise Taco Delivery!
If jet-setting isn't in the cards right now, surprise your friend with a taco delivery to their new place. Seriously, who doesn’t appreciate food that doesn’t require prep or cleanup? It’s your way of saying, “I miss you, and I hope this buys back our years of friendship.”
If tacos can’t fix it, it’s a serious situation!Wrap up the virtual hug with a cheeky note about how much you wish teleportation devices were a real thing. In the end, they'll appreciate the gesture (and the tacos) and know that, despite the miles,
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Challenge Them to a Bucket List Dare
A bucket list dare is a great way to engage your bestie in something new and exciting. Pinpoint quirky or fabulous activities you both have always dreamed about. Craft a list and challenge each other to tick one silly adventure off per month.
Because who said your glory days ended after baby number one?Even trying to make these dreams come true from afar can be as entertaining as the event itself. Share your progress with silly photo updates or hop on a call and get the live, albeit pixelated, version. It might not be the same, but it’s definitely a start.
Don’t Forget the Power of Snail Mail
Yes, we said snail mail. Intimate and personal, sending a letter via post is a quaint gesture drowned in good intentions. Scribble a letter filled with updates or send them a care package with tiny mementos for their new life.
Snail mail: text messages that get their steps in!Your friend will appreciate the effort, especially when they don’t have to click on a “reveal more” button. After all, nothing says genuine love like handwriting they can't read!
Whether you’re still decorating your nursery or trying to figure out why your toddler screams like Tarzan, remember, it’s all about balance. Rekindle those connections with humor, relatability, and yes, the magical touch of tacos!
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Sign-off with a swift fist bump because ain't nobody got time for long goodbyes!There you have it! Hopefully, these tips will reignite the flame with your faraway friend, lighten your day, and bring in #laughingwithtacos once more. Until next time, keep juggling, keep laughing, and keep those leggings comfy!
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